Something Else About Me
Jan. 14th, 2010 01:23 pmHere are some principles I personally try to apply when having conversations with others.
- Grant legitimacy to others and assume the best about them.
- Assume others are trying to do the right thing.
- Assume that others may see things that you miss.
- Assume that you may see things that others miss.
- Assume that conflicting views are an important source of learning.
- Understand and be able to articulate the difference between what you observe and how you interpret it.
- Identify alternative interpretations.
- Seek to understand the differences between individuals.
If you see me failing to live up to any of these principles, (a) I'm sorry, and (b) please let me know.
- Grant legitimacy to others and assume the best about them.
- Assume others are trying to do the right thing.
- Assume that others may see things that you miss.
- Assume that you may see things that others miss.
- Assume that conflicting views are an important source of learning.
- Understand and be able to articulate the difference between what you observe and how you interpret it.
- Identify alternative interpretations.
- Seek to understand the differences between individuals.
If you see me failing to live up to any of these principles, (a) I'm sorry, and (b) please let me know.
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Date: 2010-01-14 06:37 pm (UTC)You're always nice and friendly and considerate, dear Dee! This entry just proves that once more.
(no subject)
Date: 2010-01-14 06:47 pm (UTC)At any rate, I found that entire conversation very interesting and you've always been good about keeping a civil head.
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Date: 2010-01-14 06:48 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2010-01-14 07:08 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2010-01-14 07:39 pm (UTC)Words to live by!
(no subject)
Date: 2010-01-14 10:18 pm (UTC)*hugs you*
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Date: 2010-01-15 12:34 pm (UTC)<3