I know you meant no harm, and I'm sure everyone in here has the best of intentions, and I realize you were only curious about everyone's thoughts. The thing is, intentions aren't always relevant! Ughh, but it's such a delicate conversation, really, and I don't feel equipped to handle it gracefully, which is why I've been saying very little. I'm on input mode.
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Date: 2010-01-14 07:51 pm (UTC)(THIS SOUNDS SO PATRONIZING, I'M SORRY.)