An Early AM Question

[deelaundry]

Do you think the male nurse House spoke to in episode 6-8 (the Thanksgiving ep) was gay? Why or why not?

I know some people on my f-list thought the male nurse House spoke to in episode 6-8 (the Thanksgiving ep) was gay. If you thought this, what specifically made you think it?

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ETA: I have turned off comment tracking for this post. If you have anything to say to me, you can send me a PM or direct email. If anyone says anything offensive to you in this post, you can let me know directly.

Comments

[deelaundry.livejournal.com]

I am genuinely sorry this is not a safe space for you. That upsets me more than you'll ever know. I appreciate your mention of a reference source.

[spoggly.livejournal.com]

I can understand that it upsets you, because thinking about hearing the same thing said by someone to me is immensely upsetting.

I do value you as a person, and even though we have clashed about lgbtq issues before, I have always thought that, as evidenced by your (relatively) recent post about queer struggles, there is definitely space for conversation.

I am not going to lie or side-step the issue, this whole post has been intensely triggering and hurtful for me, to the point of wanting to cry from frustration, but once both of us have had a chance to sit back from it, perhaps we can discuss further.

In the meantime though, I am going to reiterate that this is not a safe space for me, and it is a place that I come to only when I feel like I have the emotional energy to deal with potentially offensive things, and that I do not really have confidence in you as the moderator of this space.

I mean everything I said before this, and I understand how overwhelming it can be to have people point out what is going wrong to you, but it's not possible to hide from the problem forever.

I hope that this is clear to you, and I am open to being asked for clarification, as mostly always.